welcome 2018 // recap

hello and welcome back to four floors up!

(I truly thought I would never hear those words ugh!)

 

I honestly have never been more content to sit down and write out a blog post than I am right now. I don’t know about other bloggers, but once I get out of my routine, it is so hard for me to pick back up where I left off and begin again.

 

With the new year here, (shout out 2018!) I really want to dedicate more of my time to the things that I truly love and enjoy. I don’t know about you, but I find new year’s resolutions pretty daunting and intimidating. I was reassured in my vibe that I get from daunting resolutions after reading some similar words from other bloggers, like @chrissyjpowers on Instagram.

 

So, I decided to take it day by day and spend my time doing the things that make me truly happy – I realized I really do love taking photos and documenting my life on a platform, like WordPress and Instagram. For a while, I kept telling myself that I need to live in the moment more and put down my camera. But what I realized was that taking photos is something that I truly love, and what I love even more is having photos to look back on so I can relive those memories once the year is over.

 

ANYWAY, I am so sorry that this blog is a slightly jumbled mess, but I felt the need to do a little recap of where I have been and where I am going in the new year (not physically, but mentally)

 

In light of loving photos, I wanted to share some recent content with you all from my nyc trip! Two days after Christmas, my family and I went to nyc for a couple days. While it was absolutely freezing, we had the best time exploring all over, spending most of our time exploring the streets of Brooklyn (especially Williamsburg).

 

So, here is a brief little nyc travel diary…

 

girl in subway b&w

This is me, actually freezing my butt off on the subway. It was so cold that the subway was one of the ways that I found myself warming up before going back out into the cold. Also, shout out to my brother for being able to navigate the nyc subway system.

 

bean boots

Would it be a madauer trip without a font inspired pic featuring my feet?

 

egg store front

Okay, so this was my first time eating at egg, and oh my goodness! SO good. Like, so simple but so good. My mom and I split a plate of eggs, home fries, bacon, and a biscuit and it was the best brunch I have ever had. The pancakes were also delicious and the vibe of the whole place was so on point. If you are ever in Williamsburg, this is a must stop.

 

graphic brick wall

This was a cool wall that we found while walking around in Brooklyn…wish it had more meaning but it was just very photogenic and needed a photo.

 

ochre store front

Of course it wasn’t a proper nyc trip without shopping in SoHo! SoHo is always one of my favorite areas to explore – there is so much shopping and I just find it so fun to go into stores that you have never even heard of before, even if it’s just to look around and window shop. Some of my top SoHo stops are always…

 

girl taking photo in snow

beanie

Even though it was so freezing cold, it was awesome to see the city in the snow. We had so much fun walking around Williamsburg and snapping some photos of the neighborhood all covered in white.

 

building b&w

I always love taking photos of the cool buildings and street art in nyc…

 

come freely...

I’d say this is some perfect new year inspiration 🙂

 

Even though I don’t have photos from these stores, here are some of my must see Williamsburg stops…

 

I can’t wait to go back and keep exploring Williamsburg. It truly was such a cool area with tons of shops yet to be discovered. If you love thrifting and finding amazing deals, you should definitely check out Beacon’s Closet.

Let me know in the comments below if you have been to any of these places or what your fav stops are when you head into the city!

As always, follow along with me on the daily through my instagram – @madauer (it’s also linked in the sidebar)

xoxo

-madauer

ps ~ stay tuned for more new content in the coming weeks & let me know if there is anything specific you would like to see on the blog!

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my social media cleanse

s o c i a l  m e d i a …

 

What do you think of when you hear those words?

 

When I think about social media, all of the good things always come to mind first. I love being able to meet other bloggers through Instagram and I have always enjoyed seeing what other people are doing through their stories and posts. Since I love photography, I love editing my photos in VSCO & being able to post them on Facebook, Instagram, or any other apps that are popular at the time.

 

girl sitting on beach

 

Plus, being a communications major, social media is kinda my thing. (lol) As strange as it may sound I feel a slight pressure from my major alone to be up to date with the latest features of these apps, and know everything from when it’s the best time to post or how to upload stories to Instagram.

 

But social media is so complex. Sometimes I think about the bad / negative aspects of social media: comparing my life, looks, clothing, material possessions, or what I am spending my time doing with what other people are doing. Like, for instance, you are scrolling through snapchat and see that someone is working out. IDK if I am the only one, but for a split second don’t you think, “hm, maybe I should work out?” Of course, the immediate answer is always, “nahhh”

 

 

Comparison sucks, but for some of us it is so hard to help but compare what we have or where we are in life when we are constantly taking in what other people are doing through social media.

 

Sometimes it is hard to remember that no one wants to share a low point in their life via Snapchat or Instagram.

 

Sometimes it is hard to remember that no one wants to share a low point in their life via Snapchat or Instagram. We aren’t gonna post about the bad grade or the things we are self-conscious about. We always want to post positive content, good vibes only – the posts that show us at our best. I am guilty of it, and I think that this realization is the first step in conquering social media, because it is something that I believe we all do.

 

girl laughing on beach

 

like…this is the reality of taking photos on the beach with the wind…

 

wind blown hair

 

Recently I read an article on Facebook. I guess it was fate that I even found this article in the first place. Also it’s super ironic that I found an article on social media that led me to enter a social media cleanse. It just shows how complex social media truly is.

 

Basically, this article made me think about how much time I was spending on social media. I will admit, I enjoy some platforms more than others. While I love Instagram, I was beginning to hate Snapchat, but I always felt obliged to check through every story and maintain each streak with my friends. When I was going places or hanging out with friends, I would actually begin to experience a feeling of obligation to Snapchat my location and show everyone where I was. (And let’s not forget about that one person you have to check and see if they watched your story once it is uploaded.)

 

The whole thing was just getting out of hand, so about 4 weeks ago I decided to enter a social media cleanse. When I say “social media cleanse,” I stopped checking a select group of apps, one of them being Snapchat. I chose the ones that were causing me to feel anxiety, stress, unhappiness, or compare my life to others.

 

An added plus, I feel even more in the moment when I go places, since I no longer feel like I have to snapchat everywhere I go.

 

Instead of deleting these apps, I decided to place them in a folder called “cleanse.” I guess I have a decent amount of self-control because I haven’t checked them since I put them in my folder. Surprisingly, Snapchat has been the easiest to completely cut ties with. I haven’t felt the least amount of curiosity about what other people have been doing this summer. An added plus, I feel even more in the moment when I go places, since I no longer feel like I have to snapchat everywhere I go.

 

very happy girl

 

I don’t want anyone to think that I am against social media as a whole, because I am not. I still use Instagram and probably check it way too much, but I am just trying to declutter my life and eliminate some of the sources that weren’t bringing me happiness anymore. I can truly say that I love Instagram because it not only connects me with my family and friends, but allows me to talk with other bloggers and form my own lifestyle blogging community.

 

Who knows, I will probably end up opening the apps in my cleanse folder again, but for now I am feeling content with my decision to leave them unopened.

 

If you related to anything I said in this article, or feel called to declutter your notifications inbox a bit, I challenge you to enter a social media cleanse. I think you will be amazed at how much more time you will have to focus on the more important things in life. Even if you cleanse yourself of only a couple of apps like I did, I believe you will notice a difference.

 

I kept a mental note of the things that I was able to accomplish with this time. These are just some of the things that I had more time to do…(note: I was able to do these things without checking and refreshing the apps in my folder ~ Snapchat, Facebook, VSCO, etc.)

 

  • watch my favorite movie EVER (Devil Wears Prada) ~ this may sound dumb, but haven’t you ever sat down to watch a movie & realized halfway through that you were refreshing instagram or snapchat for a majority of the movie???
  • more time in meaningful conversation with friends / family
  • saved on DATA!! (say whaaatt? – we run out of data just about every month, so my mom was super happy about this)
  • reading other blogs / organizing my own blog
  • making bracelets & starting madauer beads
  • hosting a bracelet giveaway
  • relaxing on the beach
  • eating healthy / successfully making a smoothie every morning for breakfast
  • exercising more
  • taking a bike ride with my dad every morning at the beach

 

One of my favorite vloggers / bloggers, Indy Blue, also wrote an awesome blog on the subject of social media / vulnerability – you can read it here. It’s amazing to read about vulnerability from the perspective of an extremely talented social media influencer like her.

 

If you decide to enter a social media cleanse / already have, let me know! I would love to hear about your experience or what you found most challenging about your cleanse.

 

thnx for reading ♡

xoxo,

madauer

// PS: there is still time to order a bracelet before heading back to school! DM / message me if you are interested in ordering. I accept venmo & ship! madauer beads all over the worldddd 🙂

up close detailed shot of bracelets

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a night at indigo octopus

h e l l o .

 

a night at indigo octopus

 

This past Friday, one of my favorite stores, Indigo Octopus, hosted their first #indigodays event. The night was filled with plenty of denim, delicious food, and beautiful flowers.

 

I was super excited to shop the store’s newest denim / fall collection and meet up with the awesome people who work behind the scenes at Indigo. Michelle & Skip have always been some of my biggest supporters, encouraging me with my bracelets and boosting my confidence. I loved getting to see them, as well as see my bracelets on display in the store!

 

bracelets

 

Michelle’s eye for picking clothing and décor for the store is spot on. Everything is so aesthetically pleasing and appealing to the eye. I loved her new product, especially for its soft blue and indigo hues.

 

clothing

 

& can we just talk about these flower arrangements for a sec? My mom and I could not stop looking at these creations from thurmanandfigfloral. Go check out their website for more flower inspo. Carly, the owner of Thurman & Fig, also created beautiful plant hangings behind the counter / cash register of the store. Her flower arrangements could be found throughout Indigo, perfectly matching the indigo / grey aesthetic.

 

floral company

flower arrangement

 

A fun addition to the night was the free bandana / monogramming station. I picked out a navy denim bandana from Donni Charm that was then monogrammed with my insta name, @madauer. I absolutely love it and I can’t wait to display it in my apartment this year.

 

bandana with madauer monogram

 

The food of the night was from One Coastal, a farm to table restaurant steps away from Indigo – literally it is next door! Everything was so fresh and delicious. From a cheese and cracker / fruit table to a flatbread pizza table, everything was amazing. My mouth is watering just thinking about the food from that night. My mom and I both tried one slice from each flatbread pizza. The first was a goat cheese, peach, and olive oil pizza – it was unlike anything I have ever had – SO good. The second was a prosciutto, arugula, and mozzarella pizza. Both = YUM

 

food display of cheeses and fruit

 

Once my mom and I finished our shopping and photo extravaganza, we headed outside to the storefront. Michelle decorated the whole outside of the store with lights, lanterns, and potted flowers. So cute! I couldn’t help but take a couple photos with our new thurmanandfig floral!

 

store front

 

potted flowers

 

I loved everything about this night and I am so thankful that we were able to attend the event. It was also super cool to see my bracelets on display in the store. Huge thanks to Michelle and her team at Indigo for being so welcoming and encouraging.

 

If you haven’t already, definitely check out Indigo Octopus. Also, head over to Thurman & Fig and One Coastal. Next time you’re in Fenwick, these are all places you will want to check out.

 

xoxo,

madauer

 

also be sure to enter my giveaway! head over to my insta to see allll the details about how to enter my bracelet giveaway – I will be picking a winner this Friday (August 11) !!

 

screen shot of giveaway post

 

 

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